What Does Sex Feel Like for a Woman?

What does sex feel like for a woman? When men ask that question, what they usually want to know is what a penis feels like in your vagina. Saying it feels wonderful is enough to put a self-satisfied smirk on most men's faces and end the discussion, but others aren't so easily brushed off. They want to know exactly what it feels like when a penis enters you and moves around inside.

For me, the most exquisite sensation of sexual intercourse is when the head first pushes past the lips into my vagina. At the very point of entrance, there is a resistance at first, and then a sensuous, stretched-out feeling as it slides in, though sometimes there's some pain, depending on the lubrication factor or the size of the penis. When the penis first slides in all the way, it often sends involuntary shivers up my spine. While it's going in, you can feel the head, but usually (in my case anyway) you can mostly only feel the shaft. If you've been waiting a long time for it (or have been teased for a long time), the first slide in feels like such a relief. It's like an increase of tension and then a release.

There's an instinctual, animal feeling about being penetrated. You just want him inside you, as deep as possible, as high up as possible. Every time his penis goes in, out, and back in again you can feel shudders all over your body, and it melds into one luscious, rhythmic feeling that you mostly feel at the very base of your stomach, right above the pubic bone. You feel this intense need to gyrate and push and feel his penis in every dimension and angle within you.

When he's giving it to you hard and fast, sometimes you can't think about anything but what's going in and out of you. That's when you might throw your hips back against him to unconsciously say you want more. When his testicles hit against you or when you feel him bumping your cervix, you know that you're taking all of him in. and that makes you feel like a real woman.

When you orgasm, you can feel yourself contract around him. As he gets close, you feel his his penis swelling and hardening, and then twitching and pulsating as he ejaculates. I usually don't feel the semen shooting into me - just an increase in warmth and wetness. When I do feel it, the semen isn't hitting the vaginal walls, but the cervix.

What I've described is the best case scenario. Sex isn't always that good. In fact, with some men, it's never that good. Your feelings can vary depending on the situation, the mood, and, most of all, the man you're with. When you're with someone you care about and who cares about you, the pleasurable sensations of sex seem to be heightened and intensified. Spreading your legs to take him inside you becomes an act of acceptance and surrender that joins the two of you together into one.

Did you know that only 25% of women achieve orgasm from sex? If you can't satisfy a woman in bed, what are the chances she'll BEG you to get naked? On the other hand, if you become a virtuoso lover, one that can make her entire body quiver with pleasure, then she will be wanting your hot flesh up against her ALL THE TIME. To discover the proven secrets to make her climax more often and with greater intensity, even if you don't have a big penis, a great body, and even if she's never had an orgasm before, click here.

How to Give Your Woman an Orgasm during Intercourse

If your woman isn't as eager for sex as you'd like her to be (or not interested at all), it's probably because she isn't getting much enjoyment from it. It's human nature to want more of what we like and less of what we don't. If your partner isn't sick, injured, or cheating on you, the reason she doesn't want to have sex more often is because she doesn't enjoy it. Period.

Surveys reveal that only about 30 percent of women have orgasms with intercourse. Female sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Women often don't have orgasm with intercourse because some sex positions don't provide enough stimulation of these pleasure spots. Here are some positions and techniques that do provide the stimulation your woman needs to have an orgasm with intercourse.

Positions and techniques for clitoral stimulation

Woman on top

The woman on top position is definitely the choice of women because she gets direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy and only has to lie back and watch the show. You can remedy this by sitting up against pillows so that it’s far easier to kiss, and she can feel more engaged with you. The woman needs to set the pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest possible range of motion. If she needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her, she can lean forward and do more of a grinding motion than thrusting so that her clitoris rubs against your public bone. You can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or stroking her back door (make sure she’s well-lubricated), or even inserting a finger into her anus.

Doggy Style Sex Position

Sexual intercourse from behind gives a man access to almost every sensitive part of a woman’s body, allowing you to easily control her level of pleasure. Usually, a woman spreads her legs during doggy style sex to allow you access in between, making it easy to reach her clitoris while thrusting. She can arch her back or lower herself toward the bed to change the sensations. Either one of you can control the motion. You can thrust, she can rock back onto you, or both. Slow it down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation. If you time it right, you may well be able to reach your orgasms simultaneously.

Missionary (man-on-top) Sex Position

The missionary position is still a favorite for many couples because it’s one of the most intimate, but it doesn't allow for a lot of clitoral stimulation. The CAT, or coital alignment technique, is a way to make sure you’re lined up to give her clitoris the stimulation it needs to bring her to climax. To get into position, you slide forward from your normal resting place so that her clitoris is receiving stimulation from the base of your penis. She can then wrap her legs around yours, trying to extend the stretch of her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of your calves. With this position she can then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her clitoris and the base of your penis.

When performing CAT, the main thing to keep in mind is maintaining contact with the clitoris. The overall movement is much less a thrusting than a synchronized rocking back and forth with the focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis. Here’s the most important part: as she pushes up on the top of your shaft, you resist with less force than she pushes. Now, on the way back down, as you push down against her clitoris, she resists with less force than you push. The result is a series of “small collisions,” rather than the standard friction of thrusting though “collisions” is an exaggeration.

Positions and techniques for G-spot stimulation

Woman-on-top and doggy style also work great for G-spot stimulation. If she leans forward when she's on top, it will cause your penis to touch her G-spot. Doggy style can be an effective position for G-spot stimulation in women because when thrusting from behind your penis should naturally rub against her G-spot. You need to massage her G-spot before penetration, though, to "wake it up." The penis, since it puts less direct pressure on the G-spot, can be even more pleasurable than fingers, but it often takes a lot of thrusting to stimulate the G-spot as much as only a few minutes of manual massage can do.

The secret for men to add that extra "oomph" for G-spot stimulation during intercourse is practicing your PC muscle exercises. When a man squeezes his PC muscle, women usually feel extra pressure on the top part of their vaginal walls, stimulating their G-spots. Every once in a while, stop the active thrusting and just tap your penis upwards using your PC muscles. You'll be amazed at the results.

Positions and techniques for clitoral and G-spot stimulation

Combine techniques from both of the above. Stimulating both the clitoris and G-spot may lead to a powerful blended orgasm for her, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.

Are these the only positions and techniques that will give woman an orgasm with intercourse? Absolutely not! Don’t be afraid to experiment, especially with a long-term partner. Women love sex just as much as you do. If you can make a woman feel great and give her an orgasm from time to time (or often), she will be more receptive to your sexual advances. That will lead to something both you and she want: more sex.

Making a woman orgasm is almost every man’s dream. Unfortunately, not every man knows what buttons to touch to give her the ultimate orgasm. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

Can a Woman Feel When a Man Ejaculates Inside Her?

Can a woman feel when a man ejaculates inside her? Curious men want to know, or at least several men I've known have been curious. I always said I could when they asked because I was pretty sure that's what they wanted to hear. However, a more honest response would have been to say that it depends on what you mean by feel.

What I can always feel when a man gets close is his penis swelling and hardening and then twitching and pulsating as he ejaculates. What I usually don't feel is the semen shooting into me. (Of course, when he's wearing a condom, I definitely don't feel the semen - at least I hope I don't - though I still feel the other signs of ejaculation.)

From what I've heard, many women never feel the semen shooting into them. At most, they feel an increase in warmth and wetness. (It's tough to feel because it's already pretty wet down there anyway.) A few women say they feel it all the time. Others, like myself, sometimes feel the actual ejaculate, but not most of the time.

When I do feel it, the semen isn't hitting the vaginal walls, but the cervix. One woman told me she can feel the man ejaculating if he's really big, but I haven't noticed that to be the case for myself. In my opinion, it's the amount that comes out and how much force is behind it that either causes me to feel or not to feel it.

By the way, when I do feel it, it's a delicious sensation. Too bad it doesn't last a little longer! For me, though, it's not something that I can count on happening, but it's a pleasant surprise when it does.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being “sure” if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, clickhere.

How to Properly Finger a Woman

There are many ways to make a woman orgasm, but using your fingers is one of the easiest ways. After all, hand and finger stimulation of the vulva and clitoris is reported to be the most common method of masturbation among women. However, not many men know how to pleasure their women by using their fingers. It involves much more than just sticking them inside her and moving them around.

The most common misconception about fingering is that men assume the "in-out" action is most pleasurable. In fact, the in-out motion of a finger can become more irritating than stimulating. The vaginal lips are pretty sensitive, and repeat friction begins to chafe.

The most pleasant sensation is derived from applying pressure to the vaginal walls, particularly the G-spot. This sexual stimulation is due to the many highly sensitive nerve endings in the G-spot. Using more than one finger may increase pleasure felt in some women as it stimulates the vaginal walls, which may also stimulate the G-spot as pressure increases and the vagina is filled.

Slide your fingers slowly between her lips, and let yourself explore a little bit to find your bearings. If she is aroused, you should be able to feel a rough, spongy spot on the roof of her vaginal wall. Push on it. You should move your fingers in a "come here" type of motion. Check your partner's response to different pressures and adjust to what makes her squeal.

Do not bother moving your fingers in and out to simulate intercourse. She will most likely be in absolute erotic bliss just by having her G-spot pressed. Change the pace of the pressing and note her reaction. Does she want it fast and hard or slow and easy? If you can't tell, ask her. Find a regular motion that she likes and repeat it again and again.

To give her even more pleasure, place your thumb on her clitoris while you press her G-spot. Even just letting it rest there feels good. Make use of both hands. One can be massaging the clitoris while the other wanders to other areas, such as the breasts.

Don’t go about fingering your woman with a certain time frame in mind. You may ‘hit the jackpot’ right away, or you might not. Just give both yourselves time to get used to the different sensations. This is actually one of those times when the journey is as good as the destination.

Making a woman orgasm is almost every man's dream. Unfortunately, not every man knows what buttons to touch to give her the ultimate orgasm. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

How to Get the Best Orgasm

How men and women achieve the best orgasm is often different between the sexes.

We are all aware of the risks of high cholesterol, lack of exercise and stress. But surely there is one part of our lives that should be uncomplicated: the orgasm. Well, apparently not.

Recent evidence suggests that, for both men and women, how we get there has big implications for what it does for us.

For a man, the more wild and thrilling the sex, the closer it is to when he met his mate, the greater his chance of impregnating her. According to a recent Channel 4 documentary, men who are fully stimulated because they are enjoying “gourmet sex” will ejaculate up to 50 per cent more, and with sperm of a better quality. But the way that women orgasm also has important medical implications.

The Times Online article goes on to say that studies by Stuart Brody, Professor of Psychology at the University of West Scotland, have shown that women who orgasm through sexual intercourse have lower blood pressure, more sensitive fingers, are slimmer, and release four times more of the restorative hormone prolactin after climaxing. He even claims that observers can predict which women commonly orgasm from coital sex just by observing the vivacity of their walks.

Most controversial of all, Brody has shown that the coitally orgasmic have better mental health and better relationships. He claims they have greater satisfaction from their sex life and more frequent feelings of desire. Indeed, Brody says that that women who never climax coitally are at greater risk of neurosis, schizophrenia and anorexia.

According to most surveys, the number of women who orgasm through sexual intercourse is about one-third, but, given a choice, about three quarters of heterosexual women prefer orgasms from intercourse rather than through manual or oral stimulation.

So, assuming that you buy into all this, what does science say is the best way to bring that about? To avoid making men feel like failures, there has been a tendency to play down coital orgasm, but the evidence shows that longer time spent in penetration, rather than foreplay, reaps the best reward.

Half of women will climax if they receive penetration for ten minutes; that rises to two thirds if the man keeps going for more than 15 minutes. Read more

Since it appears that orgasm through intercourse is a key to physical and mental health for women, the women who don't have are missing out on something important, not just sexually, but medically. My post How Women Can Learn to Have an Orgasm with Intercourse outlines a program for women to learn to orgasm from intercourse. For men, Bring Your Woman to Orgasm with the Coital Alignment Technique describes a sex position that brings 75 percent of women to a "no-hands" climax, and for the all-important factor of time mentioned in the article, 3 Easy Ways to Delay Ejaculation and The Two Best Sex Positions for Delaying Ejaculation tackle the subject of last longer.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

The 3 Best Positions for Vaginal Fisting

Vaginal fisting is the process of putting all the fingers of your hand into a woman’s vagina, and then, when these are inside her, forming a fist. Positioning is important in fisting since you're attempting to expand the woman's vagina beyond its typical daily range, and the positioning of her pelvis and legs can dramatically affect the space available within her pelvic cavity.

If you have never tried (or even heard of) this sexual practice, read my tutorial Vaginal Fisting: What It Is and How to Do It.

There are three major positions that seem to work for fisting. Start with the one that you think has the best chance of success, but don't be afraid to try the others.

1) On Her Back: The woman lies on her back, knees bent and feet resting flat, and her partner kneels between her spread legs. (If it's more comfortable, she can try resting them on her partner's shoulders). She may find that stretching out, and tilting her head back creates more room for your hand. With the spine stretched out, all the internal organs move up too, creating more space and less pressure on the vagina.

2) On Her Side: The woman lies on one side at about 85 degrees, and holds one leg up in the air. (Again, resting it on her partner's shoulder for comfort if necessary.) Use pillows under her hip for support and elevation if necessary.

3) On All Fours: The woman supports herself on her hands and knees. Alternately, she can fold her arms under and rest on her shoulders. This may be even better because it tends to tilt the pelvis upward somewhat. Use pillows to support her shoulders, or pile them up so that she can rest her abdomen and hips on them and not have to hold herself up.

Whatever position you do choose, make sure it's comfortable for her to remain in for an extended period of time. It may take several sessions of experimentation to find the positions that work best for you, or you may get it right on the first try. Either way, stay patient and enjoy the excitement.

Once you’ve tried fisting and decided that you like it, here are five advanced techniques you can learn to make vaginal fisting even more intense and satisfying for your woman.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.

5 Advanced Vaginal Fisting Techniques

Vaginal fisting is the process of putting all the fingers of your hand into a woman's vagina, and then, when these are inside her, forming a fist. If you have never tried (or even heard of) this sexual practice, read my tutorial Vaginal Fisting: What It Is and How to Do It. Once you’ve tried fisting and decided that you like it, here are five advanced techniques you can learn to make vaginal fisting even more intense and satisfying for your woman.

1) Knuckles Only
Roll the tips of your knuckles across the top of the vaginal opening. Your raised knuckles provide bumps of pure pleasure and are a great way to get her opening loosened up for further exploration.

2) Open Palm Fisting
Work your entire hand into the vagina with the palm open. Keep your fingers rigid and together as you insert and retract your entire hand into and out of her vagina. As you progress, you can add a little finger motion during each insertion. Watch your partner for signs of things she really likes.

3) Open Fingers Fisting
Similar to the Open Palm technique, you insert your hand into the vagina, but with your fingers spread apart. You may find that you have to stretch around a bit inside the canal to get some space. The individual fingertips provide for different depths, pressures, and styles of stimulation simultaneously. Wiggle them a little for added delight.

4) Finger Wave
During fisting, with your hand completely inserted into the vagina and your fingers extended open, begin to do the "Wave" with your fingers. Go back and forth or stay in one direction - both techniques are fabulous.

5) Twisting
While fisting With a closed fist inserted well into the vagina, slowly twist your entire arm back and forth. The vagina will receive stimulation from the entire area in contact. This technique can quickly overpower your woman, so watch her closely.

Adding some of these techniques to your fisting repertoire will give you enough variety to stimulate and please your partner. Watch your woman's face and body for signals of pleasure and/or pain. Keep going with what works for you. It may take several sessions of experimentation to find the techniques that work best for you, or you may get it right on the first try. Either way, stay patient and enjoy the excitement.

One of the worst things that can happen to any man is not being "sure" if he has finally given his woman a climax. Over 70% of women claim that their partners have never given them an orgasm with intercourse, and 65% of women admit to faking orgasms. Just imagine being so sexually skilled that you can literally have any woman screaming with pleasure and sexually exhausted from a night of orgasm after orgasm. To discover how to give any woman three types of mind-blowing orgasms as if it were second nature, click here.